No One Told Me Children Were Born Individuals

I guess I was just ignorant or maybe just na├»ve when I became a parent, no one told me that my children could come out total opposites. There were no set rules, no one thing worked for both children. This was diabolical! The only thing I picked up from Mom was that all children were […]

Making Sure Twins Are Individuals May Mean Leaving One Out

When the older (and then younger) boys were born, we did not give them rhyming names, and I rarely dressed them alike. If someone gave me duplicate outfits we usually used them on different days. It was a lot about letting them be individuals and so on. As soon as they showed any interest in […]